RECENTLY DIVORCED? HERE ARE 5 WAYS TO HELP YOUR KIDS FEEL AT HOME IN THEIR NEW SPACE

Divorce is a challenging time for everyone involved, especially for children.

It’s common for one parent to move out and find a new living space, and making that space feel like home is crucial for helping children adjust to the changes in their family structure.

Here are 5 ways to help your kids feel at home in your new space:

Involve Your Children in Decisions About Your New Home

While you don’t have to give your kids the final say on where you move, it can be empowering for them to feel they have some input—after all, they may be spending half of their time there! Divorce can amplify a child's sense of losing control over their world, so offering them a chance to contribute to decisions about the new home can provide a sense of empowerment and stability.

Create a Special Space for Them in Your New Home

Allow your child to personalize their new space. From picking out the paint color and bedding to helping you shop for furniture, involving them in the setup can make the new home feel more like their own. 

Give Them Structure in Your New Home

Assigning chores, even if your child only visits occasionally, can help them feel like an integral part of the household. Structure and routine are important for children, especially during times of change, as they provide a sense of normalcy and belonging.

Ensure a Positive Environment in Your New Home

It's crucial to maintain a positive environment by avoiding negative talk about the other parent. Bonus points if you include a photo of your child with the other parent in your new space!

Create New Traditions and Memories in Your New Home

Starting new traditions can help children look forward to spending time in their new home. Whether it’s cozy Friday movie nights or Sunday bike rides to the local shop, these rituals can provide comfort and joy. 

Moving to a new home during a divorce can be a daunting experience for children, but with thoughtful planning and involvement, it can also be an opportunity to create a nurturing and positive environment.

As your realtor, I'm here to support you every step of the way, ensuring your new home is a place where your family can thrive!